Someone recently gave me a handout with some great words on “letting go”. It is almost too much to take in at once, so I am going to unpack it over a few weeks.
Here’s the first part:
To “let go” does not mean to stop caring; it means I can’t do it for someone else.
To “let go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.
To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
-Author Unknown
This is some powerful stuff.
Letting go is not something I do well. I am becoming more aware each day as my oldest child is about to turn 15 that he will be out of the house very soon. I am going to have to let him go.
I signed my 5 year old up for tee ball yesterday. He is growing up and I am having to let him be a boy and take risks despite his hemophilia. I am having to let him go.
All I can do is model what I think the best way to live your life is to my children and hope that they pick up a few good things and not the bad. I have to let go of what control I “think” I have.
I must admit that each day is a gift and that God has a plan. The outcome of every thing that I do is not completely in my hands. I try my hardest to surrender each day as I wake up to the Creator and thank Him for another day. ..that His will be done regardless of what I “want.”
Today I Am Thankful For:
1. A spontaneous “girls” lunch
2. Hats
3. Business cards
4. Impromptu visits
5. A fresh opportunity
