Today is a special day, yes, it’s my birthday, but it’s also the anniversary of the day my Dad went home to the Lord. It’s bittersweet. So many things happened to my Dad in his last years with his health. He wasn’t the same person. And seeing him deteriorate was very hard.
Everything in me said it was a blessing when he passed. He was in a better place. He was with my Mom who he missed terribly. He was no longer in pain. But none of those words ever made it “okay” that he was gone.
I adored my Dad. I was his little girl.
I would go with him on Saturday’s to the school where he was principal and keep him company while he worked. Then we would go out for a burger at the local hamburger stand. And it was really cool because they had poppyseeds on their buns. We would drive in his 67′ Mustang and he would speed up as we raced over the train tracks on our way home! And we would buy bags of Fritos and he would have one between the seats of the car with a hole cut into the top of the bag so he could eat them while he was driving.
And on some Saturday’s he would take me to the local stables to watch the girls ride their horses and race barrels! See I didn’t play with dolls when I was a kid, I played with horses! He encouraged my love for horses by taking me to watch them on the weekends and see the races on television. It was our special thing.
No one could love me like my Dad. He never expressed his love by hugging and kissing, but he would reach out to me and pat me on the shoulders or on the back when I hugged him.
I’m not anyone’s little girl anymore. No one could ever love me like my Dad ever did.
I miss him.
Today I Am Thankful For:
1. horses
2. laughter
3. 67′ Mustangs
4. Fritos
5. Saturday’s
